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All what all women want you to know about sex (men only)

Posted: 27 March, 2017 at 10:07 pm
All what all women want you to know about sex (men only)
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Sex is not enjoyable as it is presumed, it is also tricky.

Apart from worrying about unwanted pregnancies or STIs, getting two people on the same desire and romance can be incredibly tricky.

Some Nigerians tend to be less open about interaction during sex as they graduate through age,if you're all about open sexual communication, great! Congrats to you.

But it's fair to say that many people still struggle to talk openly and honestly about what exactly they want in bed -- and women are often the ones who struggle with this the hardest, since they're often taught not to be too sexual or not to express their sexual desires for fear of seeming promiscuous or emasculation - that is seemingly weakening the opposite sex or taking the place of the male.

It's not that asking for what you really want in bed is hard. But most women would agree that the the timing for having that kind of conversation with their guy never seems to feel right.

For example, if you ask for what you want right in the middle of the action, you risk throwing everything off.

So many women choose to keep their secret bedroom desires on the down-low.

That's not to say necessarily that there's a world of sex moves, positions or fantasies that your partner has that she isn't telling you.

It's just that there are certain things many women really want in bed that aren't common knowledge and, for most guys, unless you ask her outright, these things usually won't come up.

How are you supposed to know what she wants if she's too shy to speak up about it? Since you're not a mind reader, we did some digging to know what women really want in bed (that they don't always make it known publicly) and it is narrowed up to 3.

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Our bodies are very sensitive when aroused, so bros be on the gentle tone.

“That's a clitoris, not an elevator button.” - Yes some Nigerians are perhaps guilty in this aspect, some would go to the point of nipple-twisting thier spouse's breast as if it was not what sustained the at a cool-young age.

One woman noted that not every woman is a fan of finger-banging, which can feel rough and sort of pointless.

Overall, the feeling was that more pressure can be added as needed, but the shock to the system of having someone overdo it can be a major turnoff.

Obviously, every woman is different, and even with these most general of guidelines, you'll find disasters.

Communication between partners is the ideal. But have some sympathy on women who haven't read enough self-help books to overcome their fear of speaking up.

You might find that having patience and understanding will make it easier to draw them out over the long run. To encourage more communication, don't make faces or act like your ego is hurt when women do push themselves to speak up. It likely took a lot of courage to do so in the first place.

All what all women want you to know about sex (men only)

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We actually do know what will get us to orgasm

Are you trying this and then trying that and finding nothing works to get her there? There's a strong possibility she actually knows exactly what needs to happen, because she's had practice masturbating - what?, but is afraid to say so because her path to orgasm has been perceived by other men or the culture at large as bitchy.

So she won't ask.

Better communication will suffice that.

All what all women want you to know about sex (men only)

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We can tell when you're doing something because you saw it in a porno.

Yes they know your new moves and knew where got it from

Most sex in pornis about what's good for the camera, not what's good for the participants in it, especially the women.

In fact, many things that look good in porn can keep us from having fun in real-life sex. For instance, in porn the only parts of their bodies the actors often touch are their genitals, so that the camera can get a full view of the action.

But in real life, sex is more of a whole-body experience, and the genital-only thing can feel cold and masturbatory.

Of course, we know that men know this, and most would deny that they're doing stuff because it looked good in a porn and not because it felt good in the moment. So we'd rather not bring it up when you do stuff that looks better in porn than it feels in life. We don't want to argue over whether or not that's what you're doing.

Please share to your spouse.....

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